"Mimi ni Mwanamke nina Tatizo, Nalala na Boyfriend wa Binti yangu,nampenda kumuacha siwezi" Je nifanyeje nawaomba ushauri wenu wadau.

She met him at the gym and they started seeing each other six months ago. She’s really keen but he’s been blowing hot and cold so I’ve had to listen to her woes a lot.

My daughter and I went for a drink before going to the cinema a couple of weeks ago, and her boyfriend happened to be meeting a friend at the bar. I’d not met him before and I was blown away. He’s so good-looking and toned. His eyes lit up and I could tell he was interested.

My daughter goes away with her job a lot. The next time she was away, there was a knock on the door and it was her boyfriend.

I invited him in and we opened a bottle of wine. We talked and watched a DVD. I realised how much I fancied him but I kept telling myself he was my daughter’s man.

It got very late and he said he should go, but when we stood up he grabbed me and kissed me.

We ended upstairs having the most wonderful sex. He said he’d like to see more of me but wouldn’t cheat on my daughter, so it’s up to me to decide what to do.

We have seen each other secretly a couple of times when my daughter’s not around and it is as passionate as ever, but I’m so scared of telling my daughter and family.

I have a problem with the age gap, though he doesn’t. I’m worried it won’t last and then my daughter and family will hate me for nothing.

Is this just lust or is there any future in this relationship?

Mapenzi ya Facebook: Mwanamke ajikuta anamtumia picha chafu mume wake na Kupanga hoteli ya kukutana na Mume wake bila kujua , Tuwe makini

This young lady who got married to a man almost 10 years older than her was trying to ‘play’ her husband, not knowing that the husband is a sharp man himself. After hearing several allegations about his young wife sleeping around with other men, the husband opened a fake facebook account and started an online romantic relationship with her.

Things got interesting and this lady decided to send her nude picture to her online lover, so as to show him how sexy she is, and even booked an hotel appointment with the facebook lover.

Kijana Aliyekuwa na Tabia ya Kufanya mapenzi na watoto apatwa na ugonjwa wa ajabu

A man is lying at a hospital in Busia after his private parts got an abnormal swelling leading to complications in releasing urine.

The boda boda operator is said to have the habit of seducing young girls and dumping them once he has had sexual intercourse with them.

The middle aged man lies to the girls that he is not married and easily gets a pass from the girls. He is rumored to be married and a father of three children.

Residents said that the man had been having an affair with a young girl in the area and she fell pregnant. The man denied that he sired the baby in the ladies womb causing the girl to seek consultation from a witch doctor.

The witchdoctor performed some ritual which caused the man’s private parts to swell in an abnormal way; medics say that his private parts are now double the size of a normal one.

Some residents told the media that the woman has demanded Sh. 90,000 from the man to dispel him. He has however failed to raise the money, forcing medics to insert a tube through his abdomen for waste release.

Angry residents said that this was a good lesson for the boda boda operators who are known to impregnate young girls and leaving them.

DAILY POST

Ndugu wadau Jihadharini na UTAPELI huu hatari sana umeibuka Nchini

Kutokana na Kupenda Kuchunguza Mambo hususani ya msingi sana. Niliona Tangazo la Kazi Kupitia moja ya Blogu za Hapa tanzania nilihisi lakini Sikupenda Kuhukumu bila Kuwa na ushahidi na ufahamu wa kutosha kuhusu hilo Swala.

Hilo tangazo lilikua ni La Kazi nikaomba baada ya hapo wakaniambia nitumie CV, na kujibiwa kuwa baada ya Siku Mbili za Kazi nitajibiwa. Niliomba hiyo nafasi wiki iliyopita na Jana Nikajibiwa na Huu hapa Chini Ndio Ujumbe niliotumiwa na Hao Wahuni wa Mtandaoni ..

Habari,

Ninayofuraha kukufahamisha kuwa ombi lako la kufanya kazi na Mercycorps Nicaragua(Central America) limekubaliwa,nimeambatanisha barua ya kukubaliwa ambayo utasaini panapohusika na kuirudisha kwetu.

Kwa mujibu wa sheria za immigration hapa Nicaragua,NGO inatakiwa kukuombea Visa/work permit ili uweze kuja hapa kuanza kazi,kwa sasa hakuna ubalozi wa Nicaragua hapo Tanzania.

Kama ambavyo nilikutaarifu hapo awali unatakiwa kutuma malipo kwa ajili ya kuprocess Visa/Work permit yako mapema kama ambavyo barua ya kukubaliwa kazi inavyojieleza ili kutoa muda mzuri kwa NGO kuprocess kwa wakati ambapo itachukua siku 4 za kazi kupata kibali hicho cha Visa/Work permit.

Sasa katika kurahisisha utumaji wa malipo hayo Management imeomba kutumia account ya mfanyakazi ambaye yeye ana account ambayo ni International Account ambayo benki yake pia inapatikana hapo nchini Tanzania,hii ni kwa sababu ya kurahisisha na kuondoa gharama za utumaji na ucheleweshaji wa kupata malipo kwa wakati.

Kwa hiyo unachotakiwa kufanya ni kubadili hiyo dola $197 kuwa Tanzania shillings ambayo ni sawa na  Tsh.315,200/- ,harafu utadeposit hiyo Tsh.315,200/- kwenye account ifuatayo;

Tafadhali nakuomba uscan na unitumie payslip/Deposit slip baada ya kufanya malipo kwa Sababu Management itaihitaji kwa sababu za kiofisi,

Bank Name: Stanbic Bank

Account Name: Jacob E.E

Account Number: 0140518946701

Visa Card Number: 4313321007132065

Regards

Lilian Kisanga

Project Manager

Mercycorps

Nicaragua

Kutokana na Ujumbe huo Niliingiwa na Wasiwasi Sana na kujiuliza vitu vifuatavyo: Iweje Swala la Kulipa pesa ya Visa/Work Permit niliambiwa ni USD 197 iweje sasa Nilipe kwa Tsh? Halafu pili Iweje Nilipe kwenye Account ya Mtu binafsi? Baada ya hapo Ikabidi nifuatilie kuhusu hii account ikanibidi niwasiliane na Stanbic Bank kwaajili ya Ufafanuzi zaidi na Ubalozi wa Marekani.Huu hapa Chini ni Ujumbe niliopokea Kutoka Benki ya Stanbic Bank.....unasomeka hivi 

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Habari Josephat,

Unashauriwa kwamba kwa sasa usiweke hela yoyote kwenye hiyo akaunti ya Jacob E.E.

Salamu,

Patricia

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Ndugu Zangu Huu Ni Utapeli Kwahiyo Msitume.

Josephat Lukaza

Naombeni ushauri wa Kina ndugu zangu: "Nimefanya mapenzi na Dereva wetu ili nipate mtoto kwa Mume wangu, sasa Nimejifungua Mapacha Nifanyeje?"

I am not a loose woman. I am just a woman who loves her husband very much and didn’t want to lose him. I just did what I had to do to save my marriage even though I feel guilty sometimes.

It was not easy but I slept with my driver so that I could give my husband a child, but instead, God gave me twins, a boy and a girl…

I was married to Philip for eight years. We had no child. “The worst was that I never got pregnant even for a day.” His mother became so impatient that she started breathing down my neck as she gave me no breathing space at all. She moved in to live with us and practically made my life unbearable – in my matrimonial home.

I cannot drink water and drop the cup because she must insult me. It got to a point that she stopped eating my food because, according to her, I should be feeding my children so that they would grow healthy and stronger and not her.

“Monica, if you had children, you are supposed to be feeding them with all these food so that they would grow healthy and strong. I am getting old so I don’t need all these nonsense you call food. Take them away and give me grandchildren,” she would scream. She also stopped talking to me, however, the only time she talks to me is when she wants to insult me and remind me of how less a woman I was.

Even after she had left, I could still hear those insults in my head so I decided to take a bold step – I seduced and slept with our driver, George. Geroge is a young man in his late 20’s. He is a graduate of Mechanical Engineering but because he could not get a good paying job, he opted to become a driver. I promised to get him a good job if he sleeps with me just once but I never disclosed the reason for this.

However, George thought I just wanted to cheat on my husband with him. I planned it during my ovulation so that I could get pregnant, although it was not easy sleeping with another man. I knew I was betraying my husband but I saw it as a necessary action. After a month, I discovered that I was pregnant. So, as promised I got a job for George in a friend’s company where he started earning almost 75,000 per month. When I told Philip that I was pregnant, he was so excited. “Sweetheart, God has finally answered our prayers. I am pregnant,” I revealed.

When I was five months pregnant, he informed his mother and she immediately returned to the house. She pampered me like a baby and also took good care of me. I never wanted to do any scan but my mother-in-law insisted. When I finally did the scan, it showed I was pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl. My mother- in-law and husband were extremely happy while I felt much fulfilled. “God thank you for compensating me with a set of twins after eight years of barrenness,” I muttered.

When the twins were born, the girl took ill for some time. It took a while before she fully recovered after several treatments and this got me worried. Philip and I insisted that blood test be carried out on them to determine their blood group and genotype and then came the shocking revelation. The doctor informed us that although their blood groups are both A, however, their genotypes are AS for the girl and AA for the boy meanwhile Philip and I are both AA. I wanted the ground to open and swallow me up because I felt Philip would ask questions but to my surprise, he did not. He just said, “Sweetheart, let’s go home. We have had quite a long day, you and my babies need to rest.”

Three months later, he held me closely and said, “Monica, don’t be scared. I don’t want to know who the father of the twins is. I know whatever you did, you did to save our marriage and I am very proud of you. I promise to always love you and my babies. I promise this will be a secret between us. I love you sweetheart. I know we will have our own children someday.” I wept as he wiped my tears with his hands.

I KNOW WHAT I DID WAS WRONG:

But at least my mother-in-law is extremely happy with me, that is all that matters. Although, everyone is happy but I feel guilty that I selfishly used an innocent man to achieve my aim. But before anybody judge me; just put yourself in my shoes and think for a moment what you will do?

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Somo la Leo: Mambo muhimu matano ambayo kila anaetafuta kazi anatakiwa kuyafahamu

Recruiters probably aren't reading your résumés: 

Sometimes hundreds or even thousands of job seekers apply to the same job. Since recruiters don’t have time to read through all of the resumes they get, they use keyword searches to filter out as many apparently unqualified resumes as they can.

23% of all job opportunities don't get advertised. 

Instead of advertising jobs, recruiters often do a keyword search on-line and directly contact the people they think would be a good fit for their job. If you aren’t on-line and if you don’t have the right keywords in your profile, you’re missing out on these opportunities. Ensure that your presence online is good on professional sites like LinkedIn, your university site and many more

Not all job seeker activities are created equal. 

As a job seeker, you have a lot of work to do: searching for jobs, filling out applications, writing resumes, networking, etc. Combined with the urgency of needing an income, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and start frantically applying to as many jobs as possible. But, applying to lots of jobs isn't always the best use of your time.

An organized job seeker gets hired faster. 

Wouldn’t it be nice to remember which jobs you’ve applied to, when you applied, what the application status is and which jobs you’re most excited about? Staying organized helps inform you about what to do next to be as efficient and methodical as possible.

You're qualified for more jobs than you realize. 

Most job seekers only come into contact with a small percentage of the jobs that are a good fit for them. This happens because it’s very hard to know all of the search terms that could be useful in your job search, especially when you consider keywords for similar roles in different industries or for slightly different roles in the same industry.

Pale China Mbwa ni Kitoweo safii kabisa.. Shuhudia hapa anavyo andaliwa

Dogs are chopped and cooked in front of diners in China.

It is believed to be a Chinese tradition to enjoy rich dog meat in cold winters. In some regions, people even beat dogs to death to release the blood into the meat, reports 'Daily Mail'.

It is a socially accepted practise of munching on dog meat when food is scarce.

However, with Chinese economy flourishing more affluent citizens are buying dogs as pets and fuelling the growing campaign against animal cruelty.

Daily Mail

Mke amuua Mumewe ni baada ya kumkuta na mwanamke mwengine

An Egyptian woman along with her lover got her husband killed in order to live with lover reported Youm 7.

AS was deeply in love with her another man whom she was introduced to by her neighbour. The two soon got intimidated by each other and often met in the absence of her husband when they began having a sexual relationship.

Realizing how strong their bond had grown, AS along with her lover SA plot to abduct her husband and force him to divorce her.

The wife gave found details of her husband’s timings and informed kidnappers the time when he would be boarding the bus.

The kidnappers jumped onto the moving bus and forced him to sit in the car which was SA’s.

He was later taken to the ATM and forced to withdraw cash. The thugs suddenly felt that he might complaint to the police, they murdered him and left his body on the street.

Youm 7

LEO KATIKA MAHUSIANO :CHANGAMOTO KWA VIJANA KABLA YA NDOA

NAANDIKA mada hii nikiwa na uhakika kwamba, vijana wengi wa sasa wanatamani kuingia kwenye ndoa wakiwa na mitazamo mbalimbali. Hata hivyo, ukweli ni kwamba, wengi wana matarajio ya kupata vitu vizuri zaidi kwenye ndoa hizo.

Nasema hivyo nikimaanisha kuwa, wanaamini wakiwa kwenye ndoa watatimiza ndoto zao za muda mrefu. Hupiga picha kuhusu idadi ya watoto watakaozaa, namna watakavyowasomesha na jinsi ambavyo familia yao itakuwa yenye furaha.

Kifupi wanafikiria zaidi kuhusu mambo ambayo yatawafurahisha. Kamwe hawapati muda wa kufikiria namna ya kukabiliana na changamoto mbalimbali za maisha watakazokutana nazo. Hawaelewi kwamba kuna siku wanaweza kukaa wiki nzima ndani bila kuzungumza! 

Je, ni kweli kwamba ndoa ni furaha tu? Hakuna huzuni? Hakuna ugomvi? Rafiki zangu, hata viongozi wa dini wanapofungisha ndoa husisitiza kuhusu kuvumiliana, kutunzana na kupendana kwa dhati hata katika kipindi cha shida na raha.

Kwa bahati mbaya, baadhi ya rafiki zetu wanapokea tofauti maneno haya, wanaamini kwa kuambiwa hivyo humaanisha kwamba kupendana labda hata kama fedha ya kula itakosekana nyumbani, mwenzake akiumwa n.k. Huo ni mtazamo tasa. Katika mada hii nitakufumbua ujue nini zaidi utakutana nacho ukiwa ndani ya ndoa.

Hizi ni changamoto muhimu kwa vijana kuzijua na kujiandaa kukabiliana nazo tangu mapema.

KWA NINI CHANGAMOTO?

Rafiki zangu ipo haja ya kujadiliana juu ya jambo hili tena kirafiki kabisa. Haya ni mambo ambayo sisi vijana tunakutana nayo sasa. Ni wazi kwamba, kila kijana anawaza kuhusu ndoa.

Anawaza kuoa au kuolewa. Anatamani kuwa na familia yake ili aitwe mama au baba, au siyo jamani? Sasa kabla ya kuingia kwenye hizo ndoa ni lazima tuzijue kwanza, hii ndiyo sababu hasa iliyonisukuma kuandika mada hii.

Kama nilivyoeleza hapo juu, fikra za wengi ni tofauti. Asilimia kubwa wanafikiria zaidi kuhusu maisha mazuri yasiyo na mikwaruzano. Wanawaza kufurahia ndoa na kudhani hakuna changamoto nyingine.

Wapo wanaofikiria hata suala la tendo la ndoa. Kwamba watakuwa huru kukutana kila siku kadiri watakavyoweza kwa kuwa wapo pamoja ndani. Hii ni mitazamo mibaya katika ndoa.

Ni kweli unaweza kufanya tendo la ndoa na mwenzako mara nyingi uwezavyo, lakini nani amekudanganya kwamba kila siku utaendelea kumuona kama umuonavyo leo? Amini usiamini, zipo ndoa nyingi zinazolalamikia suala la tendo la ndoa.

Kuna ambao wanadai hawatoshelezwi huku wengine wakilalama kuwa wenzi wao hawataki kabisa kutoa unyumba. Unajua kwa nini? Ama ana mtu mwingine pembeni au amechoshwa na mapenzi ya aina moja kila siku.

Mitazamo ya wanaume

Hawa fikra zao huwa kwenye suala la usafi, wanaamini wakiwa kwenye ndoa nyumba itakuwa safi, nguo zitafuliwa, kupikiwa na mambo mengine ya kifamilia.

Akili zao zinakomea hapo tu, hawawazi kuhusu migogoro na namna ya kutatua. Wanaota kuwa na maisha mazuri, kuwa na watoto na kujijengea heshima kwa jamii. Hilo tu, basi!

Wanawake vipi?

Baadhi ya hawa ninaowazungumzia hufikiria kuhusu kuvaa vizuri, kutolewa out, kupata watoto na mengineyo. Kamwe hawana muda wa kufikiria juu ya matatizo ambayo yanaweza kutokea katika maisha ya ndoa.

Hili ni tatizo. Rafiki zangu, maisha ya ndoa hayana furaha siku zote. Kuna wakati dhoruba hutokea na kusababisha mifarakano hivyo kuhitajika umakini wa hali ya juu katika kumaliza tatizo. Si kila siku kuna amani.

NINI TATIZO?

Kwa wale ambao wana mitazamo ambayo nimeeleza hapo juu, huwa hawana muda kwanza wa kuwachunguza wapenzi wao, lakini pia wao wenyewe kuonesha tabia zao halisi ili wenzi wao waweze kusoma kama wataweza kuendana nao.

Rafiki zangu, kwa ujumla hatutakiwi kufikiria mazuri pekee kwenye ndoa, kuna mengi ya kuvumiliana. Lakini pia kabla ya kuamua kuingia kwenye ndoa na mwenzako kuna vitu muhimu sana vya kuzingatia, wiki ijayo tutaona, USIKOSE!

Joseph Shaluwa ni mshauri wa mambo ya mapenzi anayeandikia magazeti ya Global Publishers, ameandika vitabu vya True Love, Let’s Talk Love na Who is Your Valentine?, vilivyopo mitaani.

Dereva taxi na dereva wa daladala wazichapa kavukavu barabarani

Hujawahi kuudhiwa na ujinga wa dereva wa daladala njiani kiasi cha kukufanya utamani upark gari, umfuate na umtandike vibao? Kwakuwa ni njiani na huwezi kufanya hivyo unaamua kupotezea tu japo hasira zimekujaa.

Lakini hivi karibuni huko nchini Kenya ilikuwa tofauti. Kwasababu ambayo haikujulikana mapema, nini walichoudhiana jamaa hawa, ilibidi dereva taxi na dereva wa ‘Matatu’ wapark gari barabarani kwa utaratibu usio rasmi tena kwenye barabara iliyo busy na kuonesha show ya bure kwa kuzichapa ngumi kavu kavu.

Wakiwa na hasira kama simba dume aliyeshikwa sharubu, jamaa hawa walibadilishana mikono kwa muda mrefu na kuigeuza barabara ya Waiyaki ya mjini Nairobi kuwa show ya WWE.

Iikuwa burudani tu kwa wapiti njia ambao hawakutana kuwaachanisha mafahari hao ili kuwapa nafasi wachapane sawasawa.

Baada ya kuona sasa wameanza kuchoka na kutepeta ndipo mtu mmoja akakimbia kwenda kuwaachanisha jamaa hao ambao mchapano wao uligeuka kama ugomvi wa jogoo usioisha.

Daah! Kazi kweli kweli!

Source: Thesiscrime

JAY Z LIVE IN HACKNEY FULL CONCERT ...BROUGHT RIHANNA,KANYE,MIA..WA CRAZY !

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Jay-Z headlined the first night of BBC Radio 1′s Hackney Weekend last night with a set featuring guest appearances from Rihanna, MIA and  Kanye West.

                                   

Hii Kali sana Waluo kutoka Kenya Wabadirisha majina yao ni Baada ya Kugundua Mafuta

With the recent discovery of oil in Nyakach Constituency in Luo Nyanza, the Luo Council of Elders have suggested that babies born during the oil season be named with the following names as a ritual to appease Luo gods for blessing them with oil.

This is a joke, take it as one

1. Akinyi Kenol Kobil

2. Petronilla Auma

3. Amilo Super Unleaded

4. Total Doreen Okoth

5. Caltex Opiyo

6. Mitchell Shell

7. Onyango Twenty Litres

8. Full Tank Ochieng

9. Fuel Pump Omondi

10. Pipeline Anyango

11. Shell Kenolita Akinyi

12. Olivia Oilibia

13. Crude Oil Onyango

14. David Tanker Odhiambo

15. Betty Shell Atieno

16. Agip Agwenge Okoth

17. Super Nyasuba Awino

18. Winnie Kerosene Apuoyo

19. Leakage Diesel Akinyi

20. Gasoline Opuony

21. Tullow Mike Otieno

The elders also encouraged the older people in the community to add one of these names to the current ones.

The big question is, will they add their names when Raila becomes the president?

Good day. Kenyan Daily Post

This is Just a Joke

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Fumanizi: Hii Hatari sana kijana afumaniwa akatwa kiganja cha mkono, binti hoi hospitalini ni baada ya kujeruhiwa!

Na Makongoro Oging'
WIKI iliyopita watu wa familia mbili tofauti walijikuta wakijiingiza katika matatizo makubwa baada ya kutokea walichodai fumanizi ambapo binti mmoja na mwanaume walijikuta wakijeruhiwa baada ya kukatwa na wanaodai waliowafumania.
Waliopata majeraha ni mvulana wa Geita na msichana wa Miono, Bagamoyo.


BINTI MIAKA 21
Tukio la kwanza lilimpata binti wa miaka 21, Machiwa Ramadhan mkazi wa Kijiji cha Mandela, Wilaya ya Bagamoyo, mkoani Pwani ambaye sasa amelazwa katika Kituo cha Afya cha Miono baada ya kujeruhiwa katika fumanizi. 
Vyanzo vyetu vya habari vilidai kwamba mwanadada huyo alijeruhiwa Alhamisi ya wiki iliyopita saa 3.00 usiku kwa baba yake mdogo aliyetambulika kwa jina la Mwinyijuma Paulo baada ya kukutwa na mume wa mwanamke mmoja aliyefahamika kwa jina la mama Hema wakiwa gizani huku wakizungumza kwa sauti za kimahaba.
Habari zaidi zilidai kwamba mwanaume huyo aliyejulikana kwa jina la Walter Emili maarufu kwa jina la Kojoka aliyekutwa na Machiwa, baada ya kufumwa alitimua mbio huku mwanamke huyo akishambuliwa hadi kupasuliwa shavuni na kitu chenye ncha kali na kushonwa nyuzi 12 katika Kituo cha Afya cha Miono. 
Taarifa hizo ziliendelea kudai kwamba mke wa Emili alipata taarifa kwa marafiki zake kwamba Machiwa yupo na mumewe hivyo aliwafuma wakiwa pamoja ndipo alipoamua kumpiga mgoni wake.
Mwandishi wa habari hii alienda hadi Kituo cha Afya Miono na kumkuta Machiwa akiwa amelazwa na alipoulizwa kulikoni, alisema kuwa amejeruhiwa na mama Hema.
Machiwa alikataa katakata kwamba alifumaniwa na huyo mwanaume akadai kuwa huyo mwanamke alimvamia njiani wakati akitoka katika biashara zake karibu na nyumbani kwa baba yake mdogo.
“Aliponijeruhi niliamua kwenda kwa dada yangu aitwaye Tatu Ramadhan ambaye alinipeleka kwa mwenyekiti wao wa Kitongoji cha Chemichemi na akatuandikia barua ya kwenda Kituo cha Polisi Wami tulikopata PF 3 kwa ajili ya kutibiwa,” alisema.
Aliendelea kusema kwamba alifika katika Kituo cha Afya Miono akashonwa nyuzi 12 na hadi sasa bado amelazwa.
Kwa upande wake Paulo ambaye ni baba mdogo wa Machiwa alipoulizwa juu ya tukio hilo alisema kwamba yeye ni kipofu bali alikuja kupata taarifa za tukio hilo baadaye. 
Mama Hema ambaye ni mtuhumiwa hakupatikana kwa kile kilichoelezwa kuwa bado anashikiliwa na polisi kutokana na hali ya Machiwa kuwa mbaya huku mumewe akiwa hajulikani alipo.
Afisa Mtendaji wa Kijiji cha Mandela, Andrew Semiono alipoulizwa na gazeti hili kuhusu tukio hilo, alisema uchunguzi unaonesha kuwa fumanizi hilo lina mazingira ya ukweli kutokana na kwamba hata Machiwa alipokuwa anashambuliwa hakupiga kelele kuhitaji msaada.
Naye Afisa Mtendaji wa Kata ya Mandela, Wema Ali Nzenzi alikiri kutokea kwa tukio hilo na kudai kuwa wivu wa kimapenzi umesababisha yote hayo na kwamba mama Hema alikuwa akimtafuta mgoni wake siku nyingi.
“Siku hiyo mama Hema aliposikia kuwa mumewe yupo na Machiwa alichukua tochi na kuwavizia hatimaye kuwafumania na kufanya alichofanya,” alisema Nzenzi.


MWANAUME AKATWA MKONO
Naye Victor Bariety wa Geita anaripoti kuwa mwanafunzi wa kidato cha tatu katika Shule ya Sekondari ya Nyakamwaga wilayani hapa, amenusurika kifo baada ya kudaiwa kufumaniwa na mke wa mtu japokuwa mwenyewe amekanusha.
Kijana huyo alijeruhiwa kwa mapanga sehemu mbalimbali za mwili wake na kukatwa kiganja cha mkono wa kushoto na mwanaume mmoja aliyedai kuwa anatembea na mke wake na siku ya tukio alionekana akiwa na mke wa mwanaume huyo.
Akisimulia mkasa huo akiwa wodini kwenye Hospitali ya Mkoa wa Geita alikolazwa akitibu majeraha, mwanafunzi huyo Fikiri Mtasimwa (20), mkazi wa Kijiji cha Gengetano, Kata ya Nyakamwaga mkoani hapa alidai kuwa alikutwa na balaa hilo usiku wa Juni 17, mwaka huu wakati akinywa uji kwenye kijiwe chao.


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WHEN THE CAR BATTERY IS DOWN IN THE BEDROOM: HOW DO U GET THE CAR ROARING

The fear of not being able to perform sexually can affect guys in a variety of ways:


A) They tend to avoid sexual encounters
B) They can develop low self-esteem
C) The relationship may deteriorate
D) It can lead to sexual dysfunction


But you know what? That's not the way things have to be. The key to this problem is the MIND. The mind is a very powerful tool and today iam going to teach u how to use it to not only maintain your car battery in the bedroom, but be the lover your woman wants u to be.


TAKE A STEP BACK: Take a few steps back and look for what could be causing such intense anxiety. Guys are usually quick to point out that they aren't feeling stress in any way, but if you'd take a minute and really think about it, there is something at the root of this particular problem -- find it.


Stress can stem from anywhere: your family is getting on your nerves, you're about to make love for the first time with a woman you've been after for years, your boss is on your case at work, your company is not doing well.. you get the general idea. The fact that these things are weighing heavily on your mind is deterring you from delving into your sexual experience with no holds barred.


NOT THAT YOU HAVE IDENTIFIED THE PROBLEM:


1.BE POSITIVE AND APPRECIATE THE QUEEN BEFORE YOU: Take the pressure off yourself; remember it takes two to tango. Don't rush into having making love, rather take the time to appreciate the woman that you have before your eyes. She's yours for the taking and if you would simply focus all of your attention on her, you're nervousness might slowly dissapear.


2. KEEP TELLING YOURSELF " YOU ARE THE MAN " Keep in mind that performance anxiety affects almost everyone, from the beginner to the most seasoned professional; you're not a abnormal and you're definitely not alone. Keep telling yourself that you are the man ; always stay positive and know that you have complete control over your body. Enforce that control.


3. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR QUEEN: Communicate with your lady, or better yet, spend the evening talking about all the crazy things you imagine doing to one another. It'll take your mind off your temporary drawback, and may even encourage the sleeping giant to awaken and take his woman, and make love with her like never before.


4. HAVE POSITIVE THINKING: The power of positive thinking can help you accomplish anything, and if you believe that you will have great love making, you will. And believe it or not, after the first time you overcome this anxiety, you will have the confidence to turn your self-fulfilling prophecy into something positive.


5. REDUCE WEIGHT: Most men who have a problem with premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are overweight or obese men. If you want to improve your chances of being great in the bedroom department, lose weight.


6. REDUCE SALTY FOODS AND TAKE LOTS OF VEGETABLES: Try to cut the high sodium and salty foods from your diet. The reason is that salty food affects the blood pressure. Take alot of vegetables to add vital nutrients to your diet this can stabilize the system in your body. Also be a fan of fruits each day like oranges and passion fruits.


Guys, always remember, With patience, a clear mind, and a comfortable relationship with a great woman, you'll be able to free yourself of this vicious cycle and engage in Fulfilling and great love making.

Huku ndiko dunia inapo elekea: Mtoto azaliwa na uume mbele ya paji la uso pamoja na jicho moja

Newborn had just one eye, also on the forehead

DOCTORS at Dr Malizo Mpehle Memorial Hospital in Tsolo delivered a baby with an eye and a penis on the forehead yesterday, the provincial health department said.

The baby girl, who was born to a 16-year-old girl from Qumbu, did not survive.

Eastern Cape department of health spokesman Sizwe Kupelo said the baby was born with one eye on her forehead, and no eyes where her eyes should have been.

She had a penis on the forehead even though she is a girl; and exposed small and large intestines.

“She was born with a small penis on the forehead and one eye on the forehead,” Kupelo said.

“She was born with no nose and where there are supposed to be eyes there was nothing, just skin covered over the area.” 

Earlier this month, a pair of conjoined twins were born, also at the Dr Malizo Mpehle district hospital in Tsolo. Kupelo said at the time that they were the fifth set of conjoined twins born in the former Transkei in the past 18 months.

Last year in November, one child was born with an exposed heart in Port Elizabeth and another reported case was one with an exposed brain in Middleberg.

Kupelo said this pressed for the department to do a study. There were 29 birth defects last year alone.

“We urge pregnant women to start ante-natal care early for early detection,” said Kupelo, adding that this was vital especially in the first trimester.

He said pregnant women should always inform doctors that they are pregnant whenever they consult to avoid being given prescription medication that could be harmful to the child.

Kupelo also urged expectant mothers to refrain from using traditional herbs.

“We are not saying these are the causes of these defects, but they are possible contributory factors,” he said..

NEED FOR RESEARCH

The Eastern Cape health department has called for more research into why so many babies have been born with deformities in the province.

“We are counting 50 deformities within a period of two years,” Kupelo said.

“We don’t have a documented cause.” 

Deformities, besides conjoined twins, included babies being born with their heart or brain exposed, having two penises or four legs.

Kupelo said doctors in the area, were “in the dark” about the causes.

“This calls for a need for specialists to conduct a study in the area so as to determine what is the cause.” 

The department was “in talks” about the urgent need for research by paediatric specialists into the problem.

Kupelo said most of the babies with deformities died soon after birth, or during procedures to try and rectify the deformities.

“Where necessary we attempt procedures but unfortunately the majority die,” he said.

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Somo la Leo: Yajue maswali Muhimu ambayo utakutana nayo katika Interview, pindi uombapo Kazi.

Last time, we shared how you can tackle interview questions but in this article we take you further. 




1. Tell us something about yourself.




This is the first question, you can expect during any interview you face. This usually is a question to start the communication and set the ball rolling for the interview. You can answer this question by providing some information about your work experience, technologies you have worked upon, educational qualifications. If you are a fresh graduate, you can provide some information about your family also.




The trick is to put the full stop at the right place to provoke the next question you want. For e.g. “Recently I developed a website……... It was quite an interesting but a challenging job which I enjoyed.”


2. Why do you consider yourself a suitable candidate for this position?


The answer to this question lies in the preparation you did before the interview. It is extremely important that you research the requirements of the position well and match them with your skills.


Fresh graduates can talk about their technical skills, ability to learn and grasp things quickly.


3. Why do you want to leave your present job or company?


You may want to leave your present job for any reason but make sure that you do not talk bad about your manager, company or job. It reflects your complaining attitude.


Provide a sincere reason for e.g. “I think, I have grown up with my last employer as much as I could. I want to grow further and I believe that is possible with a new employer.”


4. You have stayed in your current job for quite a long time, why?


There are many people who do not change their jobs for years and when they go out looking for a new employer, this is one of the most important questions they are asked. Some people might look upon staying with the same employer for long as “lack of ambition”.


A good answer to this question can be something like, “Yes, you are right. I stayed with my last employer for almost 5 years but I was continuously growing in the company, doing new things, handling bigger challenges. So, I was quite happy working with them for these many years.” You can then talk about how you grew with your last employer.


5. What do you know about us?


Research the company and its business a bit before appearing for the interview. Also, find out a bit about the technologies they work upon. You don’t need to know everything inside out but having a fair idea about the company makes you appear interested in the position, to be taken seriously.


6. What do you do to improve your knowledge?


The field of…….. (mention yours) is very revolutionary. It is extremely important to keep yourself abreast with the new technological developments and this needs you to take some time out of your work schedule so that you can keep sharpening your saw.


To answer this question, you can tell the recruiter about the forums which you keep visiting, sites which you keep reading. It will be an advantage if you are a member of some local user group.


7. Can you perform under pressure?


Most jobs involve working under pressure. Sometimes, it will be the pressure of delivering on time.


So, expect pressure in everything you do. It is important to maintain your performance and develop strategies to deliver under pressure. You can then go ahead and talk about your way of dealing with pressure and performing under it.


8. Tell us some of your strengths.


Again, it is important to study the requirements of the position before you appear for the interview. List out your strengths and offer the ones that this role demands.




9. Tell us some of your weaknesses.


You have to be careful while answering this question. Do not offer a weakness which will directly affect your selection but at the same time saying that you do not have any weakness will not be right too. Every human being has weaknesses, so it is perfectly OK for you to have some too.


The best way to answer this question will be to turn one of your strengths as a weakness and say that others accuse you of having this weakness but you think it is important to work in this manner. For e.g.: “My colleagues accuse me of paying too much attention to syntaxes but I believe it is important when you are writing the code to avoid spending too much time on finding and fixing the bugs later on.”


Another way to answer this question is to offer a totally un-related weakness for e.g. “I have been staying alone for so many years now but I still can’t cook independently.”


10. Are you comfortable working in a team?


“Yes, I am comfortable working in a team.” If you have any problems in working as a team, it is important to work on them and develop yourself as a team player.


11. How do you rate your communication skills?


It is important to have good communication skills. By good communication skills we mean, ability to understand and explain in a common language. So, if you believe that your communication skills are weaker, you need to work on them.


Anything less than average or good is not acceptable here.


12. You do not have all the experience we need for this position?


It is not possible for a candidate to have all the experience an employer requires. Even if you match yourself up to the expectations on technical front, there will be some difference in the work environment. And, it is absolutely fine.


The best way to deal with this question is to analyse the requirements of the position well and match your skills as close to them as possible. If something is still left untouched, offer your quick grasping power and ability to learn quickly as a solution & back it up with an example from the past.


13. How would you compensate for the lack of experience you have for this position?


As we discussed in the last question, your ability to understand and pick up new things quickly should be able to compensate for the lack of work experience you have.


14. If you were hiring for this position, what qualities would you look for in a potential candidate?


Closely understand the qualities and skills a person holding the position would need and match them with the qualities you have.


If you believe that you are missing a big quality required for the position under discussion, say that, “I understand that this is an important quality required in the person holding this position but given a chance, I will inculcate it in me.” Back it up with a confident body language.


15. Do you know anyone who works for us?


Offer some one’s name if they really know you well and can offer a positive feedback about you.


16. What is your style of management?


In today’s scenario, everything needs customization, so here also, one size can’t fit all i.e. one management style won’t work in all situations. So, offer “situational” as your style of management.


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Somo la Leo: Jinsi ya Kuandika CV nzuri itakayo kuwezesha kupata kazi mapema zaidi

Does it suddenly seem like everyone has a degree and is scrambling for the same jobs you want, and worse, a few have an edge of experience over you? One of the biggest problems is that most applications look and sound the same.


Most internship applications start with ‘Please offer me a placement in your reputable organisation’ and then go on to say nothing about this organisation, and to list 10 areas of interest, way beyond the organisation’s scope.
This demonstrates the applicants’ lack of knowledge of the work of the company/organisation they are applying to, which is very unattractive, especially in Internet age when a lot of the information about various companies is either a click or button press away even on your most basic mobile telephone if you don’t have a computer.


There is need to tailor your applications in order to stand out from the crowd. The fact that you have a degree or diploma is not a sufficient weapon in the competition; everyone else has one. So what is different about you? Why should you be the one they call and not any of the other applicants?


1. Read job advertisements carefully! This sounds simple but is often ignored, and is evident in irrelevant cover letters and resumes. These adverts contain the correct name or acronyms of the organisation, who to address the application to, and most importantly, what qualities and skills they are looking for. Internalising these enables you to tailor your cover letter and resume to showcase the skills that the potential employer is interested in.


2. The cover letter is your introduction to the employer, and is your first chance to impress. If you have a ‘common’ one that demonstrates apathy to the organisation and job advertisement, it is not likely that they will go on to see your resume.


Make use of the cover letter to demonstrate your knowledge on the organisation, front-load the skills sought and demonstrate your ability to pay attention to detail. Misspelling your own name in the first line will make the Human Resource personnel doubt your ability to write accurate reports.


If a position of administrative assistant is advertised, your first paragraph should talk about similar experience and with the appropriate qualification (name it) you believe you are able to fill the post.


Talk specifically about the organisation and the skills you believe you will be bringing to it, and maybe, the department you think you most fit in. This demonstrates that you understood the advert, invested time in knowing and understanding the organisation. Also, share their mission and goals to a considerable extent.


3. Thirdly, treasure and improve your CV often. If your cover letter sets you apart from the thousands of applicants, the resume is the next place to make sure you stick in the employer’s mind.


How? Make sure it has a neat format, is up to date, has no typos and needless to say, speaks to the job advert. In the cover letter you frontloaded your skills and abilities in brief, and how they fit the organisation. The resume is where you detail these skills and qualifications. And don’t underestimate the impact of citing your volunteer and internship experiences. Be careful to state your duties in your former work place. Proceed to list your special skills; refer to the advert and emphasise those sought after, and more.


For instance, Computer; MS Office, Stata, programming, typing, etc, public speaking, analytical reading and writing, ability to work under minimal supervision, counseling, etc, as necessary. Qualities may include; ability to stay calm under pressure, beating deadlines, creativity/innovativeness, leadership, commitment to the organisation’s values or whatever others are your own, e.g. social justice, customer satisfaction, etc.


Review documents


4. Last but not least, review your documents before submission. A friend can help you look through to make sure they are clear and coherent. Just because the job situation seems bleak for many doesn’t mean we should go around aimlessly dropping off resumes and cover letters that have nothing to do with the jobs we are seeking.


Front-loading an IT degree and driving or listening skills for a job that clearly asked for a law degree and fundraising experience for the position of executive director, is a sure way to keep you job hunting for long. Yet, your degree and the listening skill are applicable in many other places.


Scrutinise jobs well and apply, purposefully, with outstanding cover letters and resumes that make you desirable.


Finally, after submitting the documents, follow up with a humble inquiry email in at least two weeks, about their receipt of the application, not their decision to hire you.


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