Mimi ni mwanamke mwenye Miaka 32 nimekuwa na mahusiano na Mume wa mtu kwa miaka 11 je ninacho fanya ni sahihi?

Hi there,

I have been dating a married man for 11 years now and we love each other and the wife is aware about this affair. She just advises the husband to do VCT (tests for HIV) more often which we do.

I am 32 and now about to get married but my heart is with the married man,  none has ever loved me the way he does and I do not mind the fact that he is married. We both are  happy except my mother could not have allowed the marriage between me and him so we both agreed I find a single guy,settle but that we continue seeing each other.I can not let go this married man,I have  tried but I  failed. Am I doing a wrong thing?

I am not in love with the single man I’m marrying the way am in love with the married man.

The love between me and him is just too strong,please help.