Hivi ndivyo jinsi ya kupunguza kasi ya mpenzi wako Muongo Muongo

Being consistently supportive, respectful and affectionate reduces the risks and being positive and upbeat towards one another. Being caring, and showing genuine happiness and affection goes a long way to preventing infidelity, while anger and negativity make it much more likely. In fact, even a little negativity causes a lot of problems. You must discuss your negative feelings of course, but there’s a right and wrong way of doing that. Such as taking a mutual, problem solving approach, rather than making it a ‘you’ versus ‘me’ conflict.

Showing appreciation reduces the risks. When you first met you valued everything your partner did for you. But by now you probably expect more, acknowledge less, and tend to take each other for granted...

Accepting your partner for who they are rather than trying to change them reduces the risks. Relationships work best when partners have a lot in common, but respect and appreciate their differences.

Sharing your feelings reduces the risks. Even though that’s difficult sometimes, because you have to be able to tell the truth and listen to things that may be hard to hear. Relationships work best when you listen and understand, rather than control or judge.

Telling your spouse that you love them and that you’ll always be there reduces the risks a lot! Partners who frequently reassure one another of their love and commitment rarely stray.
Sadly, many relationships are doomed to infidelity before they even start. So choose your partner carefully. And then pay lots of attention to the risk factors after you’re wed. It’s not your fault if your partner strays, but there is a lot you can do to prevent it!