Men do a lot of things to try and
attract women. Some of them work, and well, some of them crash and burn. The
problem is that most men really have no idea what women find attractive about
men. This is what leads them to shooting in the dark and hoping for the best.
To really get your attraction levels soaring you have to know
what women actually find attractive about men, all the time, not some time.
Take the guess work out of attraction.
1. Dominance –
Women absolute love dominance in a man. Now this doesn’t mean you walk around
like the best thing since sliced bread and chain your woman to the stove, but
it does mean you are in control. You take control, you command control and your
control is incredibly attractive to females.
2. Confidence –
Similar to dominance, confidence will make women swoon over you. They adore the
alpha male that stands in front of the line. You can’t be the little puppy that
just falls in line. Be sure and proud of who you are, confidence in yourself
and what you do is what will reel women in like the catch of the day.
3. Relax – Women really like it when you
seem calm and relaxed. Now this doesn’t mean you need to pop a Valium before
talking to a woman but it does mean you need to take a few deep breaths and
just cool it. When you appear relaxed women will take notice at how cool calm
and collected you are.
4. Hygiene – An incredibly important and
yet overlooked part of attracting women is hygiene. Yes, appearances are
important, they are what shows the world how you care for yourself.
Poor hygiene shows that you don’t respect yourself and that DOES
NOT attract women. It’s also important because I don’t know a single time when
two people met eyes across a crowded room and said “Wow he looks smart.”
5. Be Fun – When you are the “life of the
party” everyone INCLUDING women want to be around you. They see fun people and
automatically assume they will have fun being around them. Now being fun can be
anything from being a social butterfly to always having a good time no matter
where you go. No matter which suits you BE FUN and women will respond.
6. Be Positive – Being happy will really
attract great attention. No one wants to hang out with a gloomy Gus, so if
you’re moping around you are not going to attract women, in fact it will be the
antithesis of attraction. You will push people away. You will find them turning
and walking the opposite direction rather than engaging you.
7. Be Generous – Being giving is a good way to
get female attention and it will be very positive attention. This doesn’t mean
kill your bank account trying to be the cool guy that gives everything anyone
asks for, but it does mean you shouldn’t shy away from offering drinks, food or
something that will help them at that moment. Giving will make you appear to be
the care taker and women love when men take care of them.
8. Be Chivalrous – As much as people say
“Chivalry is dead” it doesn’t mean it can’t be revived. And trust me women will
eat it up like the last box of ice cream. Open doors for them, pull chairs out
and be all around a knight in shining armor. Chivalry is NOT dead and it will
win women over time and time again.
9. Be Spontaneous – Spontaneity shows excitement
and women don’t want to be a part of a humdrum life. Women love spontaneous
acts of passion and romance. They love it when they are surprised and when you
keep things interesting no woman will be able to resist.
10. Show Commitment – Before you freak out and have
a heart attack this doesn’t mean you should get down on one knee and ask the
girl to marry you. It just means you need to show her you are capable of
commitment and you don’t shy away from it like most men. Women love when men
can commit and showing her you can, will lock in your position at the top of
her list.
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